“The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.”

“There are basically two types of people. People who accomplish things, and people who claim to have accomplished things. The first group is less crowded.”

“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.”

“It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the dog.”

“Really great people make you feel that you, too, can become great.”

“A thousand half-loves must be forsaken to take one whole heart home.” – Rumi

Well, I’m here to tell you… not making a choice, is a choice.

The world keeps turning, despite your perceived inaction. I say perceived because by not moving forward, you are making a choice – instead of owning your own steps though, you’re just staying on whatever course you happen to already be on. In not wanting to make a decision, you are deciding to stay in your default state, whatever comfort zone you happen to be in.

If you get to a fork in the road, and there’s two paths, make a choice to move forward, boldly, down one. Trip and stumble along the way, but fight your way through, going for what you want. Make mistakes, but don’t sit too long at the fork wondering about the opportunity cost of one over the other – because there’s also an opportunity cost of just sitting there, frozen.

Life is going to be a battle, whether you’re sitting at the fork in the road or moving forward. But only in moving forward do we own our path. Don’t kid yourself and think you’re stalling between two choices – you may have already made the third choice, to let life happen to you instead of captaining your own destiny.

“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.”
Henry David Thoreau

This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Polonius to Laertes, Hamlet Act 1, scene 3, 78–82

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity;
an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”
- Sir Winston Churchill